A caller named Neil, from New Brunswick, New Jersey, said he expects to personally cover a $500,000 wedding.
The concern focused more on cultural expectations and reputation than on shared family finances. Host George Kamel questioned Neil on “The Ramsey Show” about whether staying at home or moving out fits his plans for marriage, independence, and long-term financial stability.
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The 22-year-old said he earns about $90,000 in take-home pay and lives with his parents. He said he contributes approximately $1,000 to $2,000 each month toward “groceries and miscellaneous,” even though he does not pay formal rent.
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Neil said his parents paid for his college education, which left him without student debt as he entered the workforce.
He also said he built a $30,000 emergency fund, which covers about six months of expenses. Neil said he contributes to his employer-sponsored retirement plan and receives a company match. Kamel said that the combination shows strong financial discipline for someone in his early 20s.
“You’re crushing it. I mean, 22 years old with a 90,000 take-home pay, you have no debt, an emergency fund.” Kamel said. He added that half the women listening in at that moment would give anything to have a stable man like him.
The discussion then moved from financial readiness to how future choices could shape independence.
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Caller Shared The Wedding Price
“I’m sorry, hold the phones. You said $500,000 for a wedding?” Kamel said, interrupting as Neil disclosed that he had placed the wedding budget at about $500,000.
Neil responded by pointing to cultural norms, asking if George had ever been to an Indian wedding. He said such events are often multiday celebrations with large guest lists and strong expectations.
Neil said that reputation really matters a great deal to him. He also said he does not want his parents to pay, even though weddings in his culture are typically funded by both families.
Kamel questioned that approach, suggesting that Neil was better off buying a house for that much money. He further warned that such a cost could reshape future plans.
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Kamel said the central issue is priority rather than income. “The wedding is one day and I want to set myself up for the rest of my life with my wife,” he said, adding that he would not delay independence to fund a single event.
He warned that paying the full amount alone could mean living at home until marriage, calling it a bad plan. Kamel said long-term stability should outweigh ceremony scale when planning early adult life.
Neil said he has been dating his girlfriend for six years and that they share the same cultural background. He said he has not discussed wedding finances with her or their families yet, describing the planning as early.
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